Love is a state. Relationships are a game. What is the most important in a happy relationship? Could it be a passion? Passion is a special kind of sexual energy, passion paints experiences in bright and juicy tones, immerses into ecstasy and gives unforgettable moments that are very difficult to describe in words. But apart from passion there must be other feelings and values between two people. If you want a long-term relationship with your loved one, then in addition to passion, there must be respect for each other, the ability to forgive, to look through the eyes of another person, always try to understand his point of view, not to criticize each other, to make gifts, to help in everything, to lead sincere conversation, to have common interests and hobbies. In love between people, each component is important, since if something is removed, it becomes incomplete. Without tenderness, love becomes rough, without self-sacrifice, selfishness comes to the fore, without respect, love becomes stale, without affection - indifferent, and without passion boring. It is so important to maintain a balance.
People are always saying 'use your connections', but how do you do this without seeming desperate or bothersome? Here’s some sound advice to get you started. Tell them your story People always remember a good story, share details of your background, give insight and funny anecdotes about who you are and your experiences. When you make people smile or empathise they are more likely to remember you and leave a lasting impression. Next time you meet they’ll recall the guy with that funny story rather than the one who spoke only about what kind of job he wanted. Be clear, to the point and very specific Don’t be vague, don’t try and keep your options open by not being clear about what you want. So when someone with connections asks what you’re looking for – be ready with a confident answer “ I am looking for a Senior Finance role within the oil and gas industry”. When that opportunity arises your connections will immediately think of you. Be that someone they want to talk...
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