What is more precious than gold? The thing you cannot buy, the thing you cannot command or cause. Respect is the thing that has to be earned, not demanded. But what sets apart people we admire and respect? Those people have cultivated right habits. Habits that are worth mirroring and cultivating more than anything else:
Accessibility
Highly respected people are often down-to-earth. They know that respect might elevate you, but you find it on the ground. Those people are truly accessible. Instead of building walls of elitism around themselves, they build bridges. Without being accessible it'a really hard to earn respect. When boss gets out of the office to talk to the stuff, listen to their ideas and complains - it makes a difference.
Appreciation
Saying "thank you" takes only few seconds, but only few people prefer to do this. Showing your gratitude is one an of the most important habits you can cultivate. Even if your appreciation goes unnoticed it still matters, not only for people you're grateful to, but to yourself as well. A lot of famous and respected people start their day with thanking life for what they have. Maybe we should try too?
Passion
Did you heard the saying that those who stand for nothing fall for everything? Giving up your beliefs and chaning your opinion every time is the best way to lose respect. Respected people are those who appreciate other people's opinion, but always follow their hearts.
Acknowledge
Remember how Princess Diana engaged with every person from poor to elite? She always said that everyone deserves to be valued. The respected person enters the room with a dozen people where he only knows a few, this person will shake hands with everyone. This is what acknowledge means.
Remember how Princess Diana engaged with every person from poor to elite? She always said that everyone deserves to be valued. The respected person enters the room with a dozen people where he only knows a few, this person will shake hands with everyone. This is what acknowledge means.
Tact
Accepting criticism or negative feedback might be difficult. But higly respected people always respond to negatives without offending anyone. It doesn't matter how offended you are, you must not fall to their level.
Consistency
Respect is like a tree. It doesn't grow in one night. People who've already earned it - they know it well. And they are consistent on getting better and achieving their goals.
Fulfillment
Respected people let their actions do the talking . They always deliver their promises. Saying one thing and doing another is not the best way to earn respect. If you want to be respected you need to make sure your life reflects what you preach. Remember that the talk is cheap.
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